Monthly Archives: March 2014

I’ve got you under my skin…

Posted on March 30, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I had a whole 1000+ word post I was starting… …and it was all rooted in the past. Feelings about what happened in my marriage. More evidence to support that I was miserable, but willing to make it work and … Continue reading →

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Letter from the Paramour…with my personal comments within

Posted on March 24, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

“I sent this msg to you Friday through FB. Apparently you didn’t get the message so I am using the email address on FB to email you. I’d like to caveat your conversation with [your ex] to state that this email … Continue reading →

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A Letter from the Paramour

Posted on March 24, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I received this after having another conversation with my ex about how his actions have damaged our kids. How his paramour will never be anything other than the woman that he chose to leave his family for regardless of the … Continue reading →

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The “moments” just keep coming…

Posted on March 16, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

So latest developments…because I know you’re just dying to know! About two months ago I got news that my ex was moving back to be closer to the kids. Remember Never a Dull Moment…? Fast forward to a few weeks … Continue reading →

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Some things are just taboo…or flat out wrong.

Posted on March 15, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I truly believe you can surround yourself with a multitude of people who will all agree with you…whatever your position. They will all cheer you on and sing your praises. They will hold you up and puff your ego… …even … Continue reading →

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So with the state of my mind…I probably shouldn’t be writing…yet here I am… I have self doubt. Not just the “oh, gosh, I wonder if they really like me” kind of superficial musings. True. Hard core. Root of my … Continue reading →

Posted on March 5, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective | 6 Comments

Second guessing…

Posted on March 3, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I haven’t posted in awhile… almost 2 weeks to be exact… I’ve been in a strange place. I had a run in with my ex that made me feel empowered in the moment, I let down my filter of neutrality … Continue reading →