So the ex has agreed to my path of ridding myself of the house. No other crazy, hair brained expectations that we would move to some other location together.
Now I can begin the process of working my way up and out of this hole once and for all. Start off on my own pathway making all my own decisions with no input whatsoever from his end…not a care to any he may put forth, because we are now going to truly be unlinked in all ways not pertaining to children.
I had a fantastic weekend with my oldest son. We took a trip to a college campus he has shown interest in to get an informal tour and watch some wrestling. The campus was beautiful. The wrestling was good. He had smiles all weekend, which was nice coming from an otherwise neutral personality.
And the beauty…we have an expected 8-10 inches of snowfall projected which should give us around a week of school closings…
Life is looking up today.
It’s a nice feeling.
Making Sense from MY Perspective 
That is all wonderful news!
Thanks! It was pretty awesome!