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Life Interrupted

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Reprogramming

Reprogramming is hard. Once you are hardwired to be one thing, it is a challenge, to say the least, to try and reroute those wires. I believe that had my husband died, I would have been able to pick up … Continue reading

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My story is so different… not that any story of infidelity is really the same… Another blogger mentioned the TrueTori show about her husband’s affair and their broken marriage. The curiosity that killed the cat, yeah, well, it got me … Continue reading

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Scarlet Letter

I’ve been wearing a self imposed scarlet letter. No, I never cheated on my husband. I wasn’t the one who ultimately turned away from my marriage in the end. Yet still, I have branded myself in my own mind. I … Continue reading

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Some things I WISH I could say…

Today my ex made a comment in an email about “knowing my feelings on this matter” regarding him moving forward with a relationship with the paramour and “appreciating my cooperation” with a schedule change that will accommodate their plan for reintroduction of her into … Continue reading

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You can’t get SOMETHING for NOTHING…

Okay…it’s Spring Break for me – OBVIOUSLY based on my last two posts! lol So I’ve had time to peruse my site and many others this morning. The kids are with Disney Dad (my daughter getting a new Chromebook for her … Continue reading

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Cry me a river…

It’s been quiet here on the “ex and paramour contact” front… I have not even eluded to getting the paramour’s email to either my ex or responding in any way to the paramour.  I have also not been asked. Truly, … Continue reading

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I feel “cheated” MORE than I feel “cheated on”…

I should be happy. I should be relieved. I no longer have to feel less than important. I no longer have to feel that my needs were unreasonable. I no longer have to question my own motivations. I no longer … Continue reading

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Letter from the Paramour…with my personal comments within

“I sent this msg to you Friday through FB.  Apparently you didn’t get the message so I am using the email address on FB to email you.  I’d like to caveat your conversation with [your ex] to state that this email … Continue reading

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A Letter from the Paramour

I received this after having another conversation with my ex about how his actions have damaged our kids.  How his paramour will never be anything other than the woman that he chose to leave his family for regardless of the … Continue reading

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