Category Archives: relationships

So we’ve done it! We’re half way in to our month long cross country RV trip. I know I’m spending WAY more than I have, and I’ll be in shock when I finally tally the total, but I’m glad I’m … Continue reading →

Posted in being a mom, emotions, life after divorce, relationships, traditions | 4 Comments

Love and Respect…can we get what we want?

Posted on January 10, 2015 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I’m beginning to believe that it may just be as simple as this… women want more than anything to feel loved, cherished, admired. men want more than anything to feel respected, valued, admired. And I think we both desire the connection from a single … Continue reading →

Posted in relationships | Tagged communication, emotions, relationships | 6 Comments

In good times and in bad…

Posted on August 4, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I read an article today on the state of marriage and how feminism and the feminist movement has impacted how men and women view marriage. It stated that statistically women’s interest/desire to marry has increased while men’s interest/desire to marry … Continue reading →

Posted in relationships | Tagged divorce, happiness, marriage, relationships | 8 Comments

Disconnection

Posted on July 30, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

Feeling like a part of something… A part of a family. A part of a relationship. A part of a frienship. A part of a team. A part of a social group. A part of a community. It seems to … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, relationships, traditions | Tagged "chosen" family, children, divorce, dreams, happiness, lonely, moving, parenting, relationships, transitions | Leave a comment

Donning the armor against divorce and coparenting…

Posted on July 19, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I’m visiting the blog less. I sometimes wonder if that is a good sign. That I’m not dwelling on the crappy parts of my life…because I tend to seek out this forum when I need reassurances and support that I … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, relationships | Tagged children, choices, communication, divorce, parenting, relationships | 6 Comments

One is the loneliest number…

Posted on June 4, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

It’s just so lonely. This life. This life I didn’t imagine for myself. It’s just so damn lonely. I find myself in a place I never chose. With responsibilities that weigh heavily on my shoulders and feel heavier by the … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, relationships | Tagged divorce, doubt, lonely, relationships | 4 Comments

You can’t handle the truth!!

Posted on May 6, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

So today was the appointment with the counselor that I was struggling with… I’ve realized several things after today… 1. I worry about seeming bitter, because I don’t really want to be perceived that way, because really I don’t feel … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, relationships | Tagged adultery, children, counseling, divorce, lies, parenting, relationships | 9 Comments

Cry me a river…

Posted on April 11, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

It’s been quiet here on the “ex and paramour contact” front… I have not even eluded to getting the paramour’s email to either my ex or responding in any way to the paramour. I have also not been asked. Truly, … Continue reading →

Posted in affairs, divorce, relationships | Tagged affair, choices, divorce, dreams, relationships | 2 Comments

Some things are just taboo…or flat out wrong.

Posted on March 15, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I truly believe you can surround yourself with a multitude of people who will all agree with you…whatever your position. They will all cheer you on and sing your praises. They will hold you up and puff your ego… …even … Continue reading →