Tag Archives: affair

Riding out the waves

Posted on July 5, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

It’s been awhile… since my last post… What’s been happening?  Well…the school year ended.  My summer online course for licensure renewal started.  My ex continues to be a source of woe and sometimes humor (more at his expense than on … Continue reading →

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My story is so different… not that any story of infidelity is really the same… Another blogger mentioned the TrueTori show about her husband’s affair and their broken marriage. The curiosity that killed the cat, yeah, well, it got me … Continue reading →

Posted on May 24, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective | 9 Comments

Happy Anniversary Honey!

Posted on May 21, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

Sunday was my anniversary. Well, not really. It “would have been” my anniversary. It “would have been” 18 years. Last year I received my divorce papers signed, sealed, and delivered the day before the “would have been” anniversary. Happy Un-Anniversary … Continue reading →

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Scarlet Letter

Posted on May 4, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I’ve been wearing a self imposed scarlet letter. No, I never cheated on my husband. I wasn’t the one who ultimately turned away from my marriage in the end. Yet still, I have branded myself in my own mind. I … Continue reading →

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Some things I WISH I could say…

Posted on April 30, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

Today my ex made a comment in an email about “knowing my feelings on this matter” regarding him moving forward with a relationship with the paramour and “appreciating my cooperation” with a schedule change that will accommodate their plan for reintroduction of her into … Continue reading →

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Cry me a river…

Posted on April 11, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

It’s been quiet here on the “ex and paramour contact” front… I have not even eluded to getting the paramour’s email to either my ex or responding in any way to the paramour.  I have also not been asked. Truly, … Continue reading →

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I feel “cheated” MORE than I feel “cheated on”…

Posted on April 6, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I should be happy. I should be relieved. I no longer have to feel less than important. I no longer have to feel that my needs were unreasonable. I no longer have to question my own motivations. I no longer … Continue reading →

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I’ve got you under my skin…

Posted on March 30, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I had a whole 1000+ word post I was starting… …and it was all rooted in the past. Feelings about what happened in my marriage. More evidence to support that I was miserable, but willing to make it work and … Continue reading →

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Letter from the Paramour…with my personal comments within

Posted on March 24, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

“I sent this msg to you Friday through FB.  Apparently you didn’t get the message so I am using the email address on FB to email you.  I’d like to caveat your conversation with [your ex] to state that this email … Continue reading →

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A Letter from the Paramour

Posted on March 24, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I received this after having another conversation with my ex about how his actions have damaged our kids.  How his paramour will never be anything other than the woman that he chose to leave his family for regardless of the … Continue reading →

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