Tag Archives: divorce

Sometimes

Posted on May 5, 2015 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

Life’s not much different after divorce sometimes…I used to cry myself to sleep when I was married and sometimes I still do…the empty is overwhelming sometimes.

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All I Can Do is Shake My Head

Posted on February 11, 2015 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

So this is how the ex decided to fuck with my head… I really WANTED to post his text…but it reveals information that I can’t share openly. So here’s the gist of it… he doesn’t want to short sale. He’s … Continue reading →

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Another of those painful conversations…but it’s getting easier.

Posted on December 7, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I voiced my truth. Our household had sickness the past couple weeks. It ran its course through all of us in some fashion. Even the ex. I started it all before the holiday. But once the holiday was over, my littlest one … Continue reading →

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It’s a setup!

Posted on October 21, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

Interactions are always some sort of setup. Why? you ask? Because all responsibility for decision making is put on my shoulders. Always. If I don’t tell him what time the kids have their events, then it’s my fault they’re late. … Continue reading →

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How Low Can You Go?

Posted on October 19, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

Having a low moment tonight. It’s been awhile. But this is a huge step backward for me. Huge. I feel back at that place where I wanted to curl into a ball and climb in bed and not get out. … Continue reading →

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We didn’t have a LOVE for the AGES…

Posted on October 6, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

…though that wouldn’t have been a reason to end it for me. I didn’t really believe in divorce as a viable option. Divorce to me was a “giving up” of sorts and a refusal to make a partnership work…whether you had … Continue reading →

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Memories…and MISSING OUT!

Posted on September 28, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

This is Homecoming weekend. My oldest (a boy) attended the dance with a great group of about 14 kids (9 girls, 5 boys) who met up at one boy’s home (LOVELY family, I’ve started becoming friends with the mom recently … Continue reading →

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Navigating New Connections

Posted on August 16, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I went to a social gathering last night with a group of women I hope to become closer to… I was invited to BUNCO for the first time several months ago by a colleague/friend and attended with a few other acquaintances … Continue reading →

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Constant flow of consciousness….

Posted on August 12, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

So I’ve kept my first goal of walking at least three times a week.  So far, so good.  Plus I have been including the kids on several occasions, so it gives me an opportunity to chat with them and connect … Continue reading →

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Forgiveness

Posted on August 6, 2014 by Making Sense from MY Perspective

I saw this picture/post on Facebook today and it reminded me of a recent comment made by the ex… I’m sorry u feel that way and have surrounded yourself with walls that limit the opportunities for positive experiences and relationships … Continue reading →

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